facebook marketplace maine Dia duit, Is Ă Mo Ainm Orhan. TĂĄ mĂ© I Mo chĂłnaĂ In Adapazarı, lĂĄrcheantar Sakarya. tĂĄ mĂ© 29 bliain d ‘ aois agus pĂłsta. TĂĄ mo bhean ChĂ©ile Arzu 21 bliana d ‘ aois, phĂłs mĂ© Ă trĂ choinne 4 bliana Ăł shin. TĂĄ beirt inĂon agam, tĂĄ ceann acu 3 agus an ceann eile 1 bhliain d ‘ aois. DĂolaim earraĂ athlĂĄimhe ar mo ghnĂł fĂ©in.
Go luath tar Ă©is dom pĂłsadh, d ‘ fhoghlaim mĂ© go bpĂłsann duine nĂ amhĂĄin a bhean chĂ©ile, ach a theaghlach freisin. Duine contrĂĄrtha agus impecunious ab ea m ‘ athair-dlĂ. Ar dtĂșs, bhĂ sĂ© ag cuimilt a bhean chĂ©ile agus a bheirt leanaĂ, agus ansin mise ag amanna randamacha. Chaith sĂ© go leor airgid ar Ăłl san am atĂĄ thart, agus mar thoradh air sin, bhĂ deacrachtaĂ slĂ bheatha aige. Ăocann sĂ© airgead Ăoctha liom Ăł am go ham, agus Ăocann sĂ© an mĂ©id a fhaigheann sĂ© go dĂ©anach nĂł nĂ Ăocann sĂ© ar chor ar bith. Ach leanfadh sĂ© ag teacht abhaile ar meisce cĂșpla oĂche sa tseachtain freisin. BhĂ SĂ© Ag DĂchĂĄiliĂș shaol mo mhĂĄthair-i-dlĂ, ag bualadh uirthi Ăł am go chĂ©ile.
Ba ghnĂĄch le mo mhĂĄthair-i-dlĂ rith ar shiĂșl agus teacht chugainn nuair a buaileadh suas Ă nĂł nuair a bhĂ sĂ faoi lĂ©igear i ndĂĄirĂre. DĂșirt mĂ© lĂ©i, ” MamaĂ, fĂĄg an fear seo, faigh colscartha, tar beo anseo linn!”fiĂș dĂĄ ndĂ©arfainn Ă© sin, nĂ Ă©istfeadh sĂ© liom agus choinneodh sĂ© a bhealach abhaile arĂs. Fuair mo bhean chĂ©ile rĂ©idh lena hathair trĂ phĂłsadh. BhĂ oideachas oscailte crĂochnaithe ag mo dhearthĂĄir-dlĂ, atĂĄ 3 bliana nĂos sine nĂĄ mo bhean chĂ©ile, tar Ă©is cĂșrsa dhĂĄ bhliain agus bhĂ sĂ© ag iarraidh dul isteach in ĂĄit leis an CPSU, agus bhĂ sĂ© ag iarraidh Ă© fĂ©in a shĂĄbhĂĄil Ăłna athair.
Ach thĂĄinig deireadh leis na trioblĂłidĂ seo go lĂ©ir cĂșpla mĂ Ăł shin nuair a d ‘Ă©ag m’ athair-dlĂ. Mar thoradh ar bhlianta fada ag Ăłl, bhĂ a chorp fĂ©imheach. D ‘Ă©irigh sĂ© tinn, d’ fhan sĂ© san ospidĂ©al ar feadh tamaill, ach nĂor thĂĄinig sĂ© slĂĄn. Chaoin mo mhĂĄthair-i-dlĂ go leor sna chĂ©ad laethanta mar gheall ar bhĂĄs a fir chĂ©ile, bhĂ brĂłn uirthi. NĂos measa fĂłs, bhĂ sĂ© ina fear cĂ©ile 25 bliain tar Ă©is an tsaoil. De rĂ©ir mar a chuaigh na laethanta thart, ĂĄfach, thĂĄinig laghdĂș ar a brĂłn de rĂ©ir a chĂ©ile, agus tar Ă©is di daichead a iompĂș, d ‘ imigh sĂ beagnach, fiĂș ag lĂșchĂĄir ar bhĂĄs a fir chĂ©ile.
Chinn mo dhearthĂĄir-dlĂ A sheirbhĂs mhĂleata a ScinceĂĄil ar dtĂșs mar gheall ar bhĂĄs a athar agus ansin toisc gur thug sĂ© dĂłchas Ăłn CPSS. Sa deireadh, nuair a chuaigh sĂ© chuig an arm, fĂĄgadh mo mhĂĄthair-i-dlĂ ina haonar ina teach.
Seachtain agus deich lĂĄ a bhĂ ann tar Ă©is do mo dhearthĂĄir-dlĂ imeacht don arm. BhĂ MĂ© ar facebook sa bhaile trĂĄthnĂłna amhĂĄin. BhĂ mo bhean tuirseach Ăł bheith ag dĂ©ileĂĄil leis na pĂĄistĂ an lĂĄ ar fad agus chuaigh sĂ a luĂ go luath. BhĂ sĂ© ag dul go dtĂ 23:00. Chonaic mĂ© Mo mhĂĄthair-i-dlĂ Solmaz ar lĂne. Cheannaigh mĂ© cuntas Facebook di cĂșpla lĂĄ Ăł shin ionas go bhfĂ©adfadh sĂ teagmhĂĄil a dhĂ©anamh lena mac, a bhĂ ag dul chuig an arm. ThaispeĂĄin mĂ© go hachomair duit freisin conas Ă© a ĂșsĂĄid. BhĂ mĂ© ag smaoineamh cad a bhĂ ĂĄ DhĂ©anamh Aige Ar Facebook ag an uair seo.
DĂșirt mĂ© lĂ©i, ” MamaĂ, nĂl, cad atĂĄ ĂĄ dhĂ©anamh agat?”ScrĂobh mĂ©. ScrĂobh sĂ© chugam go raibh sĂ© i gcomhfhreagras le cara darb ainm Kader, gur cara Ăłige Le Kader Ă©, nach bhfaca siad a chĂ©ile le blianta, go raibh sĂ© ina chĂłnaĂ in iostanbĂșl. “Bhuel, ceart go leor!”ScrĂobh mĂ© agus chuir mĂ© Ă© ag rĂĄ. Ansin rinne mĂ© comhfhreagras le mo chairde fĂ©in, scrollaigh trĂ na leathanaigh. BhĂ leathuair an chloig caite, agus dĂșirt sĂ© liom, ” Conas atĂĄ tĂș? Nollaig”scrĂobh sĂ©. “TĂĄ mĂ© go maith, conas atĂĄ tĂș?”ScrĂobh mĂ© mar fhreagra.
“TĂĄ mĂ© go maith, tĂĄ ĂĄthas orm go bhfuair tĂș Ă© seo dom, tĂĄim ag lorg mo chairde agus ag aimsiĂș…”scrĂobh sĂ©. BhĂ grĂĄ MĂłr Ag Mo mhĂĄthair-i-dlĂ Do Facebook, bhĂ sĂ ag gabhĂĄil buĂochais liom as. BhĂ sĂ© ag cuardach a chairde leis An gcuntas Facebook a cheannaigh mĂ© ionas go bhfĂ©adfadh sĂ© bualadh lena mhac san arm. Thosaigh muid ag caint Ăłn aer, nĂł in ĂĄit, comhfhreagras. D ‘ fhiafraigh sĂ© faoi mo bhean chĂ©ile agus mo phĂĄistĂ, scrĂobh mĂ© go raibh siad ina gcodladh. BhĂomar ag lĂ©im Ăł ĂĄbhar go topaic. CĂ©imĂ bunscoile ab ea mo mhĂĄthair-i-dlĂ, agus bhĂ sĂ dĂreach tar Ă©is bualadh leis an rĂomhaire. Ach fuair sĂ© go han-luath Ă©, thaitin sĂ© leis.
De rĂ©ir mar a chuaigh ĂĄr gcomhfhreagras ar aghaidh, thĂĄinig an t-ĂĄbhar chuig m ‘ athair-dlĂ ar bhealach Ă©igin. DĂșirt mĂ© leis, “tĂĄ brĂłn orm, ach is maith go bhfuair m’ athair-dlĂ bĂĄs, nĂl brĂłn orm ar chor ar bith, scrios sĂ© do shaol sa chĂ©ad ĂĄit!”ScrĂobh mĂ©. “TĂĄ tĂș ag insint na fĂrinne!”scrĂobh sĂ© mar fhreagra. BhĂ deireadh lena cuid fadhbanna le blianta fada le bĂĄs a fir chĂ©ile. “As seo amach, is Ă© do chuid ama Ă©, bain taitneamh as. Tagann duine ar an saol seo uair amhĂĄin, is fĂ©idir linn dul go dtĂ ĂĄr dteach samhraidh aon uair is mian leat!”nuair a scrĂobh mĂ©,” dia toilteanach, a mhic! chuir sĂ© freagra ag rĂĄ “.
BhĂ teach samhraidh ag Mo theaghlach FĂ©in I Karasu. villa 2 stĂłr a bhĂ ann. Cheannaigh mise, m ‘ athair agus mo dhearthĂĄir-i-dlĂ comhphĂĄirt. Aon uair a bhĂ mĂ© ar fĂĄil, rachainn le mo bhean chĂ©ile agus mo phĂĄistĂ. Agus i rith an tsamhraidh, bheadh mo bhean chĂ©ile agus mo phĂĄistĂ ann i gcĂłnaĂ le mo mhĂĄthair agus m ‘ athair. CĂ© mhĂ©ad uair a thug mĂ© cuireadh do mo mhĂĄthair-i-dlĂ, ach gach uair nĂĄr sheol m ‘ athair-i-dlĂ a bhean chĂ©ile, a rinne agĂłid. Nuair a rugadh ĂĄr leanaĂ, ba ghnĂĄch leis teacht agus fanacht chun cabhrĂș le mo bhean chĂ©ile, ach fiĂș ansin, ba ghnĂĄch le m ‘ athair-dlĂ Ă a phiocadh suas trĂ bhĂ©al.
BhĂ SĂ© ag logĂĄil Isteach I Facebook Ăł rĂomhaire glĂșine mo dhearthĂĄir-i-dlĂ. DĂșirt mĂ© leis, ” Cas ar an gceamara!”ScrĂobh mĂ©. ThaispeĂĄin mĂ© dĂł freisin conas Ă© a dhĂ©anamh, ach scrĂobh sĂ© nach bhfĂ©adfadh sĂ© Ă© a dhĂ©anamh. ScrĂobh mĂ© arĂs ceann ar cheann, ach, “nĂ thuigim, a mhic, is fĂ©idir leat teacht agus Ă© a dhĂ©anamh amĂĄrach!”scrĂobh sĂ© ar ais.
Faoin am a raibh ĂĄr gcomhrĂĄ thart, bhĂ sĂ© ag dul go dtĂ 01:00. BhĂ trioblĂłid ag mo mhĂĄthair-i-dlĂ clĂłscrĂobh ar an mĂ©archlĂĄr toisc nach raibh sĂ cleachtaithe leis, mar sin thĂłg ĂĄr gcomhrĂĄ trĂ©imhse an-fhada. Nuair a dĂșirt mĂ© le mo bhean chĂ©ile ar maidin go ndearna mĂ© comhrĂĄ lena mĂĄthair ar Facebook trĂĄthnĂłna, bhĂ iontas uirthi, ach ansin dĂșirt sĂ, “tĂĄim an-sĂĄsta ar a son, cad a d’ fhulaing sĂ thar na blianta!”dĂșirt.
Tar Ă©is dom an obair a fhĂĄgĂĄil an lĂĄ sin, ghlaoigh mĂ© ar mo mhĂĄthair-i-dlĂ. “MamaĂ, mĂĄ tĂĄ tĂș saor, an fĂ©idir liom teacht agus aire a thabhairt don ghnĂł ceamara seo?DĂșirt mĂ©. “TĂĄim saor, a mhic, tar aon uair is mian leat!”nuair a dĂșirt sĂ© sin, chuaigh mĂ© go dtĂ a theach. Nuair a d ‘ oscail mĂ© an doras, chuaigh mĂ© isteach. Le bĂĄs m ‘ athar-i-dlĂ, bhĂ sĂłlĂĄs aimsithe ag mo mhĂĄthair-i-dlĂ, agus lĂ©irĂodh an chompord seo ina hiompar agus ina hĂ©adaĂ.
CĂ© gur mise mo mhĂĄthair-i-dlĂ agus gur ghlaoigh mĂ© ar a mamaĂ, i ndĂĄirĂre nĂ raibh sĂ ach 13 bliana nĂos sine nĂĄ mise, bhĂ sĂ 42. PhĂłs sĂ, cosĂșil le mo bhean chĂ©ile, ag 17 mbliana d ‘aois agus thĂĄinig sĂ chun bheith ina mĂĄthair ag 18 mbliana d’ aois. CĂ© gur fhulaing sĂ brĂłn a fir chĂ©ile le blianta fada, ba bhean Ăłg ĂĄlainn Ă fĂłs. Fuair mo bhean a ĂĄilleacht Ăłna mĂĄthair. Is iomaĂ uair a chonaic mĂ© le mo bhean chĂ©ile go gceaptar gur deirfiĂșr iad, nĂ mĂĄthair, inĂon.
Bean reiligiĂșnach a bhĂ inti le hijab, a bhĂ cĂșramach glĂ©asadh istigh agus nĂĄr oscail a ceann in aice liom. Chaith sĂ© cĂłtaĂ dorcha fada agus baggy i gcĂłnaĂ, cheangail sĂ© a cheann le tuirbĂnĂ mĂłra. Chuirfeadh sĂ© cuma nĂos sine air nĂĄ mar atĂĄ sĂ© san fhoirm seo.
I laethanta deireanacha a fir chĂ©ile, thosaigh sĂ ag caitheamh jeans in ionad sciortaĂ, lĂ©inte fada agus tiĂșnna in ionad cĂłtaĂ mĂłra, agus chaith sĂ spĂ©aclaĂ grĂ©ine. BhĂ sciar mĂłr ag mo bhean chĂ©ile san athrĂș seo. Ba Ă© sin nuair a thosaigh mĂ© ag mothĂș mothĂșchĂĄin eile dĂł ar dtĂșs. Chuir a chuma athraitheach athrĂș ar mo chuid mothĂșchĂĄn freisin. Ach fĂłs fĂ©in, anois bhĂ sĂ© ag tabhairt aghaidh orm i stĂĄt difriĂșil, nĂ an ceann a raibh mĂ© cleachtaithe leis.
BhĂ Solmaz anne tar Ă©is a cuid gruaige a dhĂ©anamh ina bun ar a chĂșl le bĂșcla agus Ă© a cheangal ag an mbarr le scairf bheag. Ba Ă© an chĂ©ad uair a chonaic mĂ© a cuid gruaige fada, auburn. BhĂ sĂ© ag caitheamh sweatsuit liath. BhĂ an bhean a bhĂ glĂ©asta i gcĂłnaĂ clĂșdaithe agus baggy anois ag caitheamh feisteas a lĂ©irigh comhrianta a colainne. BhĂ sĂ thart ar 1.70 ar airde, rud beag nĂos giorra nĂĄ mo bhean chĂ©ile, agus bhĂ fishnet Ă©adrom aici. BhĂ a craiceann auburn, mar a bhĂ a cuid gruaige. Seachas a sĂșile mĂłra donn agus a fabhraĂ tiubha dubha, bhĂ cuma cĂłip De Sibel Can uirthi.
D ‘ oirfeadh barr a t-lĂ©ine liath dĂĄ corp go foirfe, gan a bheith in easnamh nĂĄ an iomarca, ach ba leor Ă© seo chun a breasts a thaispeĂĄint. NĂ raibh a fhios agam riamh go raibh do chĂocha chomh mĂłr. BhĂ an chuma air nach raibh bra ĂĄ caitheamh aici istigh, mar bhĂ a sinĂ ag taispeĂĄint faoi na sweatpants. Agus nuair a chrom sĂ sĂos chun slipĂ©ir a thabhairt dom, chonaic mĂ© a asal plump faoi na sweatpants agus clĂł a mionbhrĂstĂnĂ.
“TĂĄ brĂłn orm, a mhic, staid an tĂ!”dĂșirt sĂ©, mionghĂĄire. “MamaĂ, is eachtrannach mĂ©, ar mhaithe Le Dia!”DĂșirt mĂ©, ach bhĂ sĂ© cinnte gur strainsĂ©ir mĂ© leis an ĂomhĂĄ seo. Go in, baby!”mar sin thug sĂ© cuireadh dom isteach. BhĂ mĂ© I mo aonar le mo mhĂĄthair-i-dlĂ anois sa teach seo nĂĄr thĂĄinig mĂ© liom fĂ©in riamh nuair a bhĂ m ‘ athair-i-dlĂ ann.
BhĂ an rĂomhaire glĂșine ar an mbord mĂłr sa halla. DĂșirt mĂ© leis suĂ in aice liom agus fĂ©achaint orm, ag rĂĄ, “Tar fĂ©ach, seo a bhfuil tĂș ag dul a dhĂ©anamh…”Tharraing sĂ© suas cathaoir agus shuigh sĂ© sĂos. BhĂ sĂ© ag faire go cĂșramach agus mĂ© ag taispeĂĄint agus ag insint, ag cur ceisteanna le tuiscint. Seachas an ceamara, d ‘ fhiafraigh sĂ© freisin faoi rudaĂ nach raibh ar eolas aige ar an rĂomhaire agus a theastaigh uaidh a fhoghlaim, agus mhĂnigh mĂ© iad go lĂ©ir ar bhealach a thuigfeadh sĂ©.
Ar deireadh, dĂșirt sĂ©, ” an dtuigeann tĂș, taispeĂĄin dom!”DĂșirt mĂ© agus bhrĂșigh mĂ© an rĂomhaire glĂșine os a chomhair. Rinne mĂ© idirghabhĂĄil nuair a rinne a mhĂ©ara, ag crith le sceitimĂnĂ, botĂșn agus Ă© ag tĂłraĂocht os cionn na luiche agus an mhĂ©archlĂĄir, ach ag an am seo bhain mo lĂĄmh lena lĂĄmh freisin, go nĂĄdĂșrtha. Ba chosĂșil go raibh eagla ar mhĂĄthair Solmaz ar dtĂșs agus rinne sĂ iarracht a lĂĄmh a tharraingt uaidh, ach ansin d ‘ imigh sĂ.
Chuir mĂ© mo lĂĄmh ar a lĂĄmh ag coinneĂĄil na luiche agus d ‘ iarr mĂ© air fĂ©achaint ar a raibh ĂĄ dhĂ©anamh agam ar an scĂĄileĂĄn. Ag an nĂłimĂ©ad sin thuig mĂ© go raibh rud Ă©igin ag bogadh istigh ionam. Ba Ă mo mhĂĄthair-i-dlĂ fĂ©in a raibh a lĂĄmh ĂĄ coinneĂĄil agam, ach ba chĂșis le mo mhothĂșchĂĄin firinscneach at. NĂ raibh sĂ© ach 13 bliana nĂos sine nĂĄ mise. B ‘fhĂ©idir gurb Ă© sin an fĂĄth gur choinnigh m’ athair-dlĂ a bhean chĂ©ile uaim an t-am seo ar fad, ba Ă© an difrĂocht aoise RĂ©asĂșnta Beag seo eadrainn. ShĂl m ‘athair-dlĂ go mb’ fhĂ©idir go mbeadh mothĂșchĂĄin Ă©agsĂșla agam dĂł. Agus anois bhĂ sĂ© iompaithe amach go raibh sĂ© ceart.
Faoi dheireadh, tĂĄ an mhĂĄthair NeamhrĂ©ireach in ann an rud a thaispeĂĄin mĂ© di a dhĂ©anamh lĂ©i fĂ©in. “Go raibh maith agat, a mhic, tĂĄ sĂșil agam gur fĂ©idir liom Ă© a dhĂ©anamh mĂ© fĂ©in tar Ă©is seo…”dĂșirt sĂ© i nguth crith. SuimiĂșil go leor, thuig mĂ© go raibh sĂ© dĂreach cosĂșil liomsa. CosĂșil liomsa, bhĂ nĂĄire air, d ‘ iompaigh a aghaidh bĂĄndearg.
“As seo amach, nuair a bhuaileann tĂș Le Tufan, casann tĂș an ceamara air, sin mar a fheiceann tĂș a chĂ©ile!DĂșirt mĂ©. Ba Ă© Tufan mo dhearthĂĄir-i-dlĂ. “A dhia toilteanach, is fada liom uaim aghaidh mo mhic cheana fĂ©in!”dĂșirt sĂ© le mothĂșchĂĄn. “Rachaimid chuig an searmanas faoi mhionn le chĂ©ile!”d’ Ă©irigh sĂ© nĂos mothĂșchĂĄnach fĂłs nuair a dĂșirt mĂ©. Ar an mbealach amach, dĂșirt sĂ©, ” Ith Agus tĂ©igh mar sin, a mhic, cĂĄ bhfuil tĂș ag dul anois?”dĂșirt. “TĂĄ Arzu ag fanacht, nĂor dhĂșirt mĂ© leis go raibh mĂ© ag teacht anseo…”bhĂ an chuma air go raibh iontas beag air nuair a dĂșirt mĂ©. “NĂĄr inis tĂș dĂł?”d’ iarr sĂ©. “NĂl, nĂ raibh mĂ©!”DĂșirt mĂ© arĂs. “Bhuel, tĂĄ a fhios agat…”dĂșirt sĂ© mar fhreagra ar mo chuid focal, nĂor ĂĄitigh sĂ© go bhfanfaidh mĂ©.
D ‘ Ă©irigh mĂ© amach, nĂł in ĂĄit, is ar Ă©igean a chaith mĂ© mĂ© fĂ©in amach. BhĂ an oiread sin nĂĄire orm faoi mo chuid mothĂșchĂĄn, smaoinigh mĂ© fiĂș ar cĂ© chomh scanrĂșil a bheadh sĂ© dĂĄ mbraithfeadh fear cĂ©ile mo dheirfiĂșr rudaĂ mar sin i dtreo mo mhĂĄthair. Ach bhĂ sĂ© fĂor freisin nach raibh mĂ© in ann cabhrĂș liom fĂ©in.
NĂor dhĂșirt mĂ© le mo bhean chĂ©ile gur thĂĄinig mĂ© Ăł thaobh a mĂĄthar. An trĂĄthnĂłna sin, chuaigh mo bhean isteach sa seomra leapa agus bhĂ comhrĂĄ fada aici ar an bhfĂłn lena mĂĄthair agus gossiped. Nuair a thĂĄinig sĂ© chugam, dĂșirt SĂ©, “d’ fhoghlaim Mo mhĂĄthair an ceamara a chasadh air!”dĂșirt sĂ© le gĂĄire. ShĂl mĂ© go ndĂșirt sĂ© gur mhĂșin mĂ©, ach nĂor luaigh mo bhean Ă©. “Conas a fuair sĂ© amach?”D’ iarr mĂ© le fiosracht mhĂłr. NĂor chĂłnaigh mo bhean chĂ©ile air, ag rĂĄ, “nĂl a fhios agam, d’ fhoghlaim sĂ Ă© Ăł ĂĄit Ă©igin…”.
BhĂ na pĂĄistĂ ag cur go mĂłr le mo bhean chĂ©ile, mar sin le dĂ©anaĂ chaill ĂĄr saol gnĂ©is a soghluaisteacht roimhe seo. BhĂ mo bhean ChĂ©ile Arzu 1.75 ar airde agus 55 punt. BhĂ craiceann agus gruaig auburn aici cosĂșil lena mĂĄthair. CĂ© go raibh turban ĂĄ caitheamh aici, rinne sĂ iarracht i gcĂłnaĂ glĂ©asadh stylish agus ĂĄlainn, nĂ raibh eagla uirthi makeup a chaitheamh. CĂ© gur rugadh beirt leanaĂ di, nĂor dĂfhoirmĂodh a corp. Chuirfeadh sĂ© an-ĂĄthas orm Ă a fheiceĂĄil go hĂĄlainn. BhĂomar ceangailte lena chĂ©ile le grĂĄ mĂłr.